hibernate : parent contains a collection of children, when child is deleted/saved I want to automatically "refresh" parent's collections

So if a child is created or deleted, I want to remove/add to collection on parent without manually callin开发者_如何学JAVAg accessing the collection or retreving a new parent object from the session.

Is this possible?

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It's of your responsibility to maintain the coherence of the object graph. If you create a child referencing its parent, you should also add this child to the parent's collection. Hibernate won't do it for you.

Thereis no reason to call merge on the parent, though: the goal of merge is to copy the state of a detached entity to its attached versioin, and I don't see what this has to do with your problem.