Video within a JQuery Slider

I am just starting development on a JQuery Slider that will start with a video, and when the video is done the slider will begin. I'd like for the site to be able to work on both IE9 and lower, and the iPhone, which I assume will require an HTML5 option and a Flash option. I would like the slider to look like this:

http://popstache.com/

with a minimal UI, just the arrows and circles on the bottom allowing for slide selection.

I have been playing with Slidedeck at http://www.slidedeck.com/, and I know that videos can be embedded in it. My main concern right now is the video. I've heard about people using Flowplayer, but I'd rather not pay the $95 to r开发者_如何学Goemove the branding, and I do not believe that will work on the iPhone. Any suggestions? Thank you.

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MediaFront's OSM Player is completely free.

So is jPlayer.