MySQL count rows where a=b and b=a

This is the first time I've asked a question. It's the first time I've not been able to fi开发者_JAVA技巧nd what I'm looking for on SO and I think I'm going mad because it should be simple!

Suppose you have a MySQL table, 'T' with two columns 'A', 'B'.

A B
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1 2
2 1
1 3
3 1
2 4

I'd like to count mutual relations given a variable. So if I supply

X = 1

It should return

2

Because 1, 2 AND 2, 1 exist, and 1, 3 AND 3, 1 exist. However, supply

X = 2

It should return

1

Because 1, 2 AND 2, 1 exists, but no other rows where 2 = n AND n = 2.

I hope this is clear! And apologies if it's simple, feel like I'm on a brain freeze.. Cheers!

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This will work (but if you have a row with (n,n) it will also count as a mutual relation):

select count(*) from T t1
join T t2 on t1.B = t2.A
where t1.A = ? and t2.B = ?

(pass the same value in for both parameters)