How to cleanly free a frame within a click event on a button on the frame?

I used to able to do this using plain delphi buttons:

In the First Frame I have (simplified)

procedure FirstFrame.ButtonClick(Sender: TObject)
Begin
  if TButton(Sender).ModalResult = mrOK then
    ChildFrame.DoOKStuff
  else
    ChildFrame.DoCancelStuff;
  ChildFrame.Free;
end;

procedure FirstFrame.ShowFranme;
begin
  ChildFrame := TFrameWithButtons.Create(Owner);
  ChildFrame.Parent := self;
  ChildFrame.OKButton.OnClick := ButtonClick;
  ChildFrame.CancelButton.OnClick := ButtonClick;
  ChildFrame.Visible := True;
end;

In the Childframe I do nothing to process the button click... the button click is already set to return control to the Fi开发者_如何学运维rst Frame.

With some third Party buttons this occasionally causes an AV. I understand why - at some point in the 3rd party code processing returns to a now freed frame or button BUT the called code is in the first frame... Annoyingly it just works 99.99% of the time :)

There is no Release procedure for frames.

So my question is what is the correct way to handle this situation?

Using both Delphi 6 and Delphi 2009.

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Try this:

type
  TFrameWithButtons = class(TFrame)
    ...
    procedure CMRelease(var Message: TMessage); message CM_RELEASE;
    ...
  end;

procedure TFrameWithButtons.CMRelease(var Message: TMessage);
begin
  Free;
end;

procedure FirstFrame.ButtonClick(Sender: TObject)
Begin
  if TButton(Sender).ModalResult = mrOK then
    ChildFrame.DoOKStuff
  else
    ChildFrame.DoCancelStuff;
  PostMessage(ChildFrame.Handle, CM_RELEASE, 0, 0);
end; 

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Take a look at how TCustomForm.Release is implemented. It's pretty simple: it posts a message to the Windows message queue, which when processed causes the form to free itself. That shouldn't be too difficult to implement in your own code.